Social media equals less than six-degrees of separation

Summary: a real ramble (sorry) on how online social media makes me feel like there’s less than six-degrees of separation…

I blog. I use WordPress . I use a theme called K2 . I went to a site today to download the latest version of a blog plug-in called flickrRSS that I use on several of my blogs. While I’m there I notice a modifed K2 theme called Fork that looks cool. I click on the image of the theme and I notice a comment on the theme from a flickr member who calls himself SoFlaChris

“I use it on my site… it’s killer. See“.

Given the name of his flickr screen name I know he’s in my neck of the woods in South Florida so I click on his link so I can see the Fork theme in action. By the way, here’s another modified K2 theme I really like that I am now using on a blog I just started yesterday (it’s about my four kids and raising them as a part-time stay-at-home dad / part-time entrepreneur).

So SoFlaChris is also Chris::Wired . He blogs, he uses WordPress, and the modified K2 theme called Fork, and he has some of the same interests that Shannon and I have like Motorcycles (we used to have a 2002 HD Fatboy and lust after all sorts of other alternatives). He has a pic of his new VW golf on his site and I think about the VW GTi that I just sold a couple of months ago and how I really like the latest version . I notice he has a lot of stuff about weather on his blog. I have a blog called abigwind about hurricane protection. I notice Chris has recently been interviewed by the South Florida Sun-Sentinel about his home weather station. The article is no longer live in the Sun-Sentinel’s archives (they drop off after two weeks) but I find a cached version via Googlefun article. I need to link to his site from our hurricane blog.

Anyway, the guy who interviewed the blog author (Chris Maltese) for the Sun-Sentinel is the guy who I’ve corresponded with a number of times about hurricane related stories — Josh Frank , who writes their hurricane blog. Speaking of which, I STILL have to follow up on a prior story of mine that I had suggested Josh write as I now have a lot more information from an expert interview that I conducted with Dr. Tim Reinhold (the article I have to still write is about the efficacy of various plywood materials and the best methods of their installation). And though I haven’t had much of a chance to investigate it, Chris had a bunch of headlines on his blog that referred to Australia and New Zealand which made me think he may be from there. But, from reading his bio he sounds like a New Yorker so perhaps we don’t have Australia in common after all.

Weirdness…the virtual world of the blogosphere connects to real life in all sorts of interesting ways. A couple of months ago we discovered we were right down the road from a delightful fellow blogger who is in the recruitment space (jobs/employers/job seekers/stuff that supports same) that Shannon and I write about on via EXCELER8ion. I’m out of breath. That was a link-full now wasn’t it?

What’s the point?

Even though it’s my business to use blogs and other online tools to connect people I’m still amazed when it happens to me. I find it to be a very rewarding and compelling experience. Online tools like blogs, search engines and myriad other social networking sites can connect seemingly random (and not) people, interests, and data with each other and they can intersect in equally pleasing and random (and not) ways. Without my interest in blogs I would have not found Ami or Chris. I may never meet Chris but he knows about me now because I linked to him, and we are connected now. That may be the extent of it. With Ami, we eventually arranged dinner and had a great time (after all, there were pre-existing similar interests). Soon, Shannon and I will be out for our second dinner with Ami and we can’t wait. Perhaps he’ll even talk his wife into coming along on this round.

Shannon sent me an article today about how some highly popular bloggers are starting to see the limitations with the medium. I could identify with some of what the popular bloggers were saying. It’s easy to get carried away with ourselves when our ego runs roughshod over our original purposes for blogging. At least it is for me. But, most of the time (when I’m not being a wanker) I use my blogs to connect with people, to think more clearly, for therapy, for entertainment, to make money, to make connections in my head about indisciminate thoughts and ideas, to connect in a richer way with the life that I am participating in, to the community out there in the world that I want to be part of, to gain more expertise, to make new friends and professional associates, and more. And it’s not about dry humping your computer – the big wins come when we make connections in the real world.  When I think about how blogs have enriched my life, both personally, financially and professionally, both online and offline I just can’t see much down side. I know these thoughts of mine (ramblings obviously) don’t seem particularly well articulated. And since this is my personal blog, and I allow myself the freedom to publish un-edited brain***** in this forum, I’ll let this go into the ether in the hope that it will inspire greater thinking on my part, and interaction with people like you, who surely have an opinion or some useful thoughts to add. Do let me know.

The personal side of brand democratization

This is a work in progress so please tell me what you think about these points and add your own.

We all know that the rules have changed with branding lately. Brands are being democratized
by people amplifying their voice using blogs and social networking sites. Some throw stones in glass houses and others spread the good word like a new gospel.

But these disruptive technologies cut both ways. As these tools get further entwined in our lives, more and more of us will get up close and personal with ‘truthiness’ and transparency. Just like the companies that embrace this and prosper, WE will be OK if we handle ourselves with integrity. If we try to mislead, manipulate, and lie we’ll be outed – unmercilessly. These are the new rules and they apply to you and me, the individual brand.

These are some of the developing rules of your personal brand.

  1. Be yourself
  2. When you Jerry Maguire yourself you could score a touch down or you could get fired (or worse)
  3. Be open and honest
  4. Let go of control or get the hell out of the way of yourself
  5. The company you keep tells of who you are as well
  6. Find an editor for ‘you’
  7. Don’t rush to judgment
  8. Break all of these rules (and more) when it really matters.

1) Be yourself. This should be easy but it’s often not because we don’t think we’re cool or edgy enough. Why else did we wear bell bottom jeans or hip huggers – comfort? Being cool is about being comfortable with yourself even if your jeans aren’t in style.

2) Jerry Maguire. Jerry taught us that idealistic behavior is inspiring and sometimes ill advised when it’s a major departure from the ‘normal’ you. if you’re like Jerry all the time, then being a Jerry Maguire should be OK because your friends and your boss all accept you as such. But when you take on Jerry’s character in a moment of inspiration you may want to ask your best friends about your next online blockbuster before you hit the publish button. See rule number 6.

3) Be open and honest. Tell it like you see it. See rule number 6 and number 8.

4) Let go of control or get the hell out of the way of yourself. It’s easy for us to see another person’s blind spots, or our company’s weaknesses. It’s like falling off a log. We say things like ‘boy, that
was stupid,’ but it is much harder to do that with ourselves. Ever watch yourself on video? Does it make you squirm? This rule is about applying rule three (be open and honest) in a way that allows for the possibility that there’s another (perhaps even better) way to do or say something. Ask questions, seek understanding, put aside your personal beliefs and bias and try being someone else for a minute. Heck, give yourself a vacation from ‘you’ for a day and see where it gets you.

5) The company you keep tells of who you are as well. Who do work for? Who do you link to? What books are you reading and what music you are listening to? These are all common points of reference on blogs or MySpace pages. What do these choices say to your public about you?

6) Find an editor for ‘you’. Sometimes it’s Mom or Dad or your best friend. Your friends and family are the ultimate 360-degree feedback loop. Before you hit the publish button on something that is likely to be controversial ask a friend to read it over. Get some feedback and ask yourself if the ideas you are expressing are WHO you really are?

7) Don’t rush to judgment. How much stock should we put in a single blog post? Is it a singular definition and sum of your life, viewpoints and beliefs? I doubt it. Before you roast someone or something online in front of the world, maybe you should do some more research? Is the virtual you, really YOU?

8) Break all of these rules (and more) when it really matters. But don’t fall on your sword over matters of frivolity and be prepared to pay the price when you do. Enough said.

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Go with the flow

I was doing some business blogging research for a project I’m doing right now and bumped into something unexpectedly that was quite interesting. It’s called flow. Apparently this goes back about a decade and seems right up my alley and I have no idea how I missed it. Apparently I was under a rock that year.

Here’s a couple of good articles to give you the idea:

Fast Company Article: The art of work

A post on Merlin Mann’s 43 Folders productivity/life hacks site

O.J. Gude and me

Our LegacyFirst Electric Outdoor Advertisement O.J. Gude Co NYC 1892

Seen through the lens of advertising and technology the birth of EXCELER8 has come about as a result of some interesting twists and turns.
As far as this story goes its beginnings lie in a tradition very familiar to our young nation. A young man, a tailor by trade, makes his way to our shores from a far away place and settles in the new world. This young man is from Hanover Germany and he comes as many do to the shores of New York. Here he marries a young woman who gives him a fine family of sons and daughters, one of which they give the name Oscar. Still a boy, Oscar looses his father and continues life with his mother, brothers and sisters. He becomes a man and goes out on his own in search of his dreams. He pours his sweat and ingenuity into many things but the first proposition to take hold is with distributing circulars in New York City for a washing powder.

The year is now 1878 and the place is Brooklyn, New York. My Great, Great Grandfather O.J. Gude, starts an outdoor advertising company with $100 in capital. The O.J. Gude Company goes on to pioneer the first use of the electric bulb in a billboard sign in May, 1892 just thirteen years after Thomas Edison invents the first light bulb. The sign hangs on the side of the Cumberland Hotel where Twenty-Third, Broadway and 5th Avenue cross paths. The sign was 50 by 80 feet and used 1,457 lights that flashed its story MANHATTAN BEACH – SWEPT BY OCEAN BREEZES.

A great marketer, H. J. Heinz, is staying in a hotel across the street and notices the sign. He knows immediately that he has to use the new sign technology for his company. He contacts O.J. the next day and soon an electric sign with a huge green Heinz pickle dominates the same spot. O.J.’s business is off and running. Later the hotel would yield way to the Flatiron building where many more O.J. Gude installations would appear.

O.J. Gude Heinz Sign

But Times Square is where O.J. really makes his name. O.J. Gude becomes known as the ‘"Sign King of Times Square" and the "Napoleon of Publicity" and his electric "Spectaculars," the name still used today for the mammoth signs on Times Square, quickly became prolific and so associated with the bright light that bathes Broadway that O.J. is credited with coining the term and helping to create the ‘The Great White Way.’

Times Square O.J. Gude Co. Signs

By 1919 O.J. Gude’s name adorns over 10,000 billboards across the U.S. but he is remembered most for his early work with electric advertising signs. One of his most famous signs was the Wrigley’s gum spectacular placed on Broadway. "In 1917, when Gude put up a two-hundred-foot-long spectacular, on the west side of Broadway between Forty-third and Forty-fourth, featuring twelve gleaming “spearmen” who went through spasmodic calisthenics, it was as big an event in American pop culture, in its way, as the opening of “The Jazz Singer,” ten years later," according to an article in The New Yorker.

"Gude was the Botticelli of Broadway." according to an article in Newsday. "In 1917, he created what many consider his masterpiece: a Wrigley’s Spearmint gum sign eight stories high and 200 feet long. Using 17,500 lights, Gude summoned a curlicued fantasy kingdom of peacocks and fountains sure to make onlookers think "Wrigley’s" whenever they hankered for a good chew."

A more modern version of the famed Wrigley’s Spearmint Gum sign.O.J. Gude Company Wrigley's Sign

O.J.’s dominance in the outdoor advertising space and use of cutting edge technology with proven advertising methods he perfected with his many regular billboards made him a classic rags to riches millionaire by the turn of the century.

O.J. made his mark in a time of great change, where modern technological advances were having life changing impacts on people and societies the world round. Advertising, then as now, was one place where we got to see that technology pushed to its limits for the purpose of reaching people, and connecting them with advertiser brands and messages. We’re still at it: pushing technology in the pursuit of ever more effective advertisements. I am reminded in no small way of the current interactive rich media ads I deal in when I read a quote from O.J. talking about his spectaculars, "O.J. Gude declared that outdoor advertisers "forced their announcements on the vision of the uninterested as well as the interested passerby." The ads O.J. made famous drew critiques back in their time just as current online ads do today. While some called the huge signs ‘garish’ many others remember them fondly for their awesome display and entertainment value and for the American ingenuity that they symbolized. I wonder if O.J. realized that almost 100 years would transpire before a descendent of his became involved in the advertising industry again?

My ADventure so far
Zoom forward to the 1970’s and a father and mother sit in their kitchen and dream of an adventure to see the world with their two boys, Lorenz Jr. and his younger brother Julian. Father regularly scans the New York Times employment display ads for overseas jobs and imagines himself continuing his university teaching at colleges in England and Australia. A new life begins when a college teaching job is found a world away in Perth, Australia and soon young Julian and his family stand in an Australian immigration office in New York City where Julian is asked what he thinks about seeing Kangaroo’s.

Julian hangs out at his Dad’s college in Australia where his father teaches media studies, photography and computing. Julian discovers the computer lab and falls in love when he realizes he can send anonymous instant messages (though they’re not called that back then) via mainframe computer to unsuspecting student’s computers in the middle of their studies, “This is God, You’ll surely flunk out.”

“A couple years abroad” turns in to ten years and Julian returns home to the U.S. by himself at 16, bidding his family a fond farewell. They wonder what a 16 year old is going to do taking care of the family farm by himself but he uses his skills of persuasion and focus to make his dream come true. Julian knows he’ll be just fine. Julian now lives in the northeast and within a 100 miles of his nearest relative, a kind and loving Aunt who is as sharp as a tack and head of a computing department that runs entirely on computer cards. “How can one make a lot of money?” he asks his Aunt and she says ‘Sales.’ Julian sells stuff. Julian sells computers, he loves technology, he understands computers. Soon Julian and a Saab full of belongings are hurtling down Interstate 10 across the nation to the promised land: Silicon Valley. No money, no specific job prospects but a big dream like so many of us have.

Julian didn’t know it as he arrived in Silicon Valley in the Fall of 1988 with dreams of working in the technology sector but he’s be on a very different path from what he envisioned only a week later. He scours the display ads as his Father once had and searches for jobs working at his dream tech companies and in the end happens upon an intriguing ad in the San Jose Mercury News for a position selling local Yellow Pages advertisements. Another one of those want ads. He never even makes it to another interview. That first advertisement makes an ad man out of him and he becomes GTE Directories’ youngest outside sales rep in the U.S. Julian is 19 and has his first company car and a new techie device that he loves called a mobile phone. It takes up a large portion of his car’s floor. The ads and the phone and the money make him forget about working for a technology company for a while. He goes to work for Pacific Bell selling their Yellow Pages, he get a lot of promotions, he manages, he trains, he strategizes, he works on a mega merger, he markets, he buys a house and starts a family, buys another house and still he can’t get technology out of his head.

The 90’s tick by amazing things are suddenly happening all around him. Julian thinks of the computer with the pulse dialing rubber phone coupler from his Dad’s college in Australia that he used to dial-in to the College mainframe with. He thinks of the first bulletin board he accesses via IBM PC clone from the family farm back east. He dials-up now to a menu based bbs like system called America Online. The number of users on their welcome page keeps growing so fast he can’t believe it. He notices on America Online that his local newspaper where he found his first big job has something on AOL called MercuryCenter. It turns out to be the very first online newspaper. He watches and wonders how an ad man can make the leap back in to technology without giving up all that he’s learned.

One day his boss select him to work on a hush-hush project that he knows Julian will just love. The boss is right. It’s about making directories online and getting their huge sales force ready to sell ads on them. Pacific Bell @Hand and later It’s about bringing together buyers and sellers using advertising and technology. Everything goes in to a blur and all you read about is IPO’s and secretaries retiring. He hesitates too long to earn O.J.’s millions. He thinks of his kids and the mortgage and ponders if he should do a startup or something in between. The decision is made for him when a call comes from a former boss who now works for the company that started MercuryCenter. They’re called Knight Ridder and have newspapers and news web sites scattered all over the country.

Julian joins them just before they make a new separate company called Julian gets his first glimpse in to the power of print and online classified advertising in the real estate, automotive and recruitment space. Before this he didn’t realize that the papers and their online properties make most of their money this way – but it makes more sense when he thinks back on how profound an impact those job ads have had on his life. Although Julian goes to Knight Ridder to help with the online advertising nuts and bolts he ends up starting the first national network sales team instead and has reps all over the country. He works with national Ad Agencies and Fortune 500 businesses. He’s exposed to the Internet version of Madison Avenue and thinks about how this same town was a crowing achievement for his Great Great Grandfather. These Madison Avenue types need to understand how Internet advertising works like everyone else. He has some answers. He works with the Sales VP to build a sales force, operations and processes to get the local and national sales network running.

The boss has Julian focus on a major problem area and shifts his focus there completely. It’s about sales and ads, graphic design and some technology stuff that he thinks Julian will understand. It’s online ad serving and nothing really works the way it’s supposed to. He deals with sales people, ISP’s, servers, clients, tech vendors, newspaper publishers, site leaders, editorial staff, Internet elitists, national advertisers with millions in the budget and local advertisers with hundred in the budget and some not so happy site users along the way. Some of them have the opinion that Julian’s ads are as annoying as those garish billboards in Times Square. A lot of people still don’t understand what people like Julian do, even people in the industry but Julian knows it’s just about bringing buyers and sellers together, people and brands, people and jobs, people and cars, people with their new homes. It all works better now because we’re combining advertising with high technology.

Julian opens a new chapter in his life when he bumps into a girl who is a colleague that works at Knight Ridder in Miami. She’s a rising star who’s made her own way in the Internet. She’s never been a newspaper reader or used the Yellow Pages like Julian. She was a net girl from college on and it’s just how she thinks. Newspaper companies understand that she gets it and and have hired her to help them get it. They meet over business in Phoenix but feel they’ve known each other since the Phoenix has been rising from the ashes. They make a family. They move to Florida where she’s from. He does his same job that he had in San Jose from Miami now. They love it but Julian misses his oldest boys back in the Bay Area and sometimes even the Valley with all the things that go whir in the night. There’s a connection between these places in time, space and the Internet and even with his history back in Times Square and Madison Avenue.

NowJulian E. Gude
Now it’s the Fall of 2005 and I think about how it’s been twenty years and four kids since my smart Aunt told me about how I could make money in sales. I think about O.J. and how I want to have the family business he never really got to have despite all his money. None of his money is here anymore, my Grandfather spent the last of his Father’s share to help buy that family farm I took care of once and it’s gone now too. I know I’m lucky because the money’s gone and not the other way around. It wouldn’t be the same if I didn’t earn it on my own. I live in America and I have the same opportunity that O.J. once had.

For all his business success O.J. seems to have failed with his family. He didn’t succeed in teaching them the value of money, of common sense and ingenuity and hard work that he used to make himself a success. His kids were classic first generation silver spoons that kept their hands out for daddy’s money. They burned through O.J.’s money tout d’suite and since none of it lasted my Grandfather led a normal man’s life with an occasional perk thrown in to his early childhood. My father just worked his ass off on the farm and vowed to use his brain to change all that. And he did that and went on to conquer New York in his own way.

O.J. would understand my motivation. I’m not sure if I’m the entrepreneur that he was but I understand some things about this Information age and how today’s companies work and what they need. And I have some answers and a whole lot of passion and I want something that my kids can do with me if they want to someday. I’m not in it for the money. I found out on my own that making a lot of money without having any time to spend with those you’re working for is a bankrupt way of life. We’ll find the balance by working together and working smarter. And my wife is an entrepreneur as her mother is and she has no fear for our future. We’re going t be one hell of a team. And my Dad is here to help out as well. He’s a history buff who has always helped connect the past with the present as a way to better understand the world and act intelligently. He’s studied and taught media and computing and has a bards tongue and an educator’s verve for helping people learn. He’s also got that technology bug like my wife and I do.

It’s all coming together in a moment of clarity. We see a formula where the right people with a singular focus can leverage that focus and their expertise to create exponential results. Julian E. GudeWe think it will speed things up in a world where the most valuable asset we have is time. It can shorten the distance between two points like the Internet makes the world a smaller place. We call it EXCELER8ION even though Dad isn’t so sure about the name he still believes in the cause. I’m just so thankful to have been involved in the infancy of Internet advertising because it is the ultimate marriage of my passion for advertising and lifelong love of technology.

Just like my Great Great Grandfather, O.J. Gude I’ve had a front row seat to some stuff that my Great Great Grand kids will read about and marvel upon. For a long time I’ve helped a lot of big companies make their mark and now it’s time for my family and I to work for ourselves and make our mark upon this place. Perhaps we’ll even be fortunate enough to work with people like you who might care to join us on our ADventure.

With warmest regards,